Beauty in Her Badassness | Tom Nikkola

Beauty in Her Badassness

No matter her shape, size, age, or position, there is something beautiful about a woman who unleashes her honest and authentic self to the world. To be clear, I always find my wife, Vanessa, to be beautiful. But just as cookie dough ice cream has different layers of deliciousness, there’s … Keep reading…

Why We Need to Stop Bastardizing Struggle | Tom Nikkola

Why We Need to Stop Bastardizing Struggle

I’m going to Baader-Meinhof you: “STRUGGLE.” The Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon occurs when you become aware of something, and then start to notice it everywhere around you. Like Cole in The Sixth Sense who saw “dead people,” I see struggle. If you don’t see it already, you’re about to see struggle too. I don’t … Keep reading…

Uncivil War - Why We Are Better At Condemnation than Conversation | Tom Nikkola

Uncivil Wars: Why We’re Better at Condemnation than Conversation

Finger-pointing. Helplessness. Hissy-fits. Name-calling. And unicorns. We can’t forget the unicorns. No, I’m not talking about toddlers, adolescents, or teenagers. I’m referring to the attitudes and behaviors of too many “adults” across America. Is it just me, or does it seem almost impossible to have a constructive conversation about a controversial … Keep reading…

4 Poisonous Type of People to Stay Away From | Tom Nikkola

Limit Your Exposure to These 4 Types of Toxic People

A relationship with a toxic person is kind of like drinking anti-freeze. If you don’t know what you’re drinking, you might mistake it as healthy and sweet. But if you understand what you’re drinking, you’ll realize it’s poisonous. You might believe you have a good, healthy relationship. But it’s because … Keep reading…

In My Next 40 Years | Tom Nikkola

In My Next 40 Years…

The calendar tells me that it’s true. I’m 40 years old (as of 8:35 am CST on January 14, 2017).  I don’t feel old. In fact, there’s nothing about the way I think or feel, that would lead me to believe I’ve reached this age.  However, turning 40 does remind … Keep reading…