In My Next 40 Years | Tom Nikkola

In My Next 40 Years…

The calendar tells me that it’s true. I’m 40 years old (as of 8:35 am CST on January 14, 2017).  I don’t feel old. In fact, there’s nothing about the way I think or feel, that would lead me to believe I’ve reached this age.  However, turning 40 does remind … Keep reading…

What a Man Needs From You to Be His Best | Tom Nikkola

What a Man Needs From You to Be His Best

When a guy is at his best, there is little that can hold him back. When he’s not, there is little that can get him to move. A man who has some needs met can handle ridicule, setbacks, failures, and major obstacles without taking his eyes off his goals and responsibilities. … Keep reading…

How The Power Of Others Influences You Tom Nikkola

How the Power of Others Influences You

Who fills you with ambition, excitement, and belief in yourself? Who sucks the excitement, desire, and self-confidence from your soul? Other people influence your thoughts, actions, and feelings every day. The closer your relationship is, the greater the influence. Our lives are shaped by the people we surround ourselves with, more than the … Keep reading…

Paralysis of Personal Growth

Why You Can Get Paralyzed by Personal Growth

The desire to grow, to become a better version of ourselves, lives in almost all of us. According to Tony Robbins, it’s one of the six human needs. To grow, we have to learn new skills, work with others, and learn how to get out of our own ways. Rarely does … Keep reading…

Tom Nikkola Definition of Marital Abuse

The Definition of Marital Abuse That Set Me Straight

Marital abuse occurs on a sliding scale. What I share below is not to minimize the situations someone may be facing such as physical abuse or emotional abuse.  I’m sharing what I learned in hopes that it helps some husbands and wives understand the impact they have on their partners, even when … Keep reading…

The VKTM Virus: What You Need to Know | Tom Nikkola

The VKTM Virus: Diagnosis, Prognosis, Prevention

What is the VKTM virus? What are the symptoms? Can you prevent VKTM? Is there a cure? Here are the main things you need to know about this virus. Description: The VKTM virus is a curable “disease” that affects a significant number of people. The virus acts on individuals’ minds … Keep reading…